Either they have a lovely family or they have one that is messed up. It can be extreme. Almost all my colleagues have supportive, apparently happy-looking, family that make you want to start your own family right away. They would always share the highlights of their kids, share the pictures and talk about them. Maybe that's what parents do generally. I don't know. They do it in-person which I think is endearing. They all respect and adore their wives. They might be annoyed at some of their quirks but in general they would not trade their wives for the world. They are not pretending or anything. They just love their wives and are very committed to them. You really can tell that their shit they have is real.